One of the most Malicious and Harmful  Forms of Manipulation happens in the place that most of us believe is the most comfortable and safest to spend our time – Inside your Home.

But the Truth is, people live out years and even decades of their lives under the influence of a Manipulative Partner. We Read stories and headlines all the time about the Manipulation that can happen inside the home and how sometimes it can Lead to Physical Altercations, Abuse, and even Spousal Homicide.

The Manipulation that occurs inside the home between partners employ the most powerful and Influential Forms of Emotional Manipulation in Existence, and it works on a scale that Tampers with the very souls and hearts of the Targets.

When a form of Manipulation by a Partner is very successful, it is because the Manipulator has been able to pinpoint exactly where the partner is most vulnerable emotionally. This area of vulnerability will be different in each person, and, certainly, there are those who are much more manipulatable than others of a stronger constitution and higher emotional intelligence. We will focus on some of the most common emotional strategies employed by manipulators in the home.

Flattery and Superficial Charm

Superficial Relationships employ Superficial Pleasures and Techniques. these are the kinds of Relationships that Might start through an Initial Sexual Encounter and sustain themselves based purely on the initial excitement and pleasure coming from an exciting new affair, extra-martial or otherwise Predators in this Arena often juggle multiple partners at the same time and become quite talented at compartmentalizing each interaction and keeping them separate from each other.

This is vital to a successful Manipulative Tactic in this context because he, most often, will employ excessive charm and flattery in order to put the target in a place psychologically where she is most susceptible.

 as with all of the most skilled dark psychology users, the practitioner will have picked out his target specific to his intentions and tactics. Those women who spend all of their Time on their Looks and Making themselves Public on Social Media are often the most susceptible to flattery and superficial charm Tactics.

They enjoy the Attention and Compliments, and they often form a kind of addiction to this attention, using it as a way to sustain themselves and their self-esteem. When they don`t get this attention their esteem and confidence might plummet to a place where they become desperate, often utilizing sexual influence in order to garner the attention and admiration they`ve develop such a need for.

This type of Tactic can be quite economical for the manipulation are effective for short-term gain, but the effects of this behavior often catch up to the manipulator in some way or another. The targets of such manipulation are also susceptible to being stolen away, as the emotional attachment present in deeper types of emotional manipulation does not take hold in the same way regarding this superficial charm-based manipulation.

Anyone who comes along with more material wealth and steady use of charm and flattery may ignite a desire to switch gears, stemming from a mentality that the “Grass may be Greener on the other side “.

Without the bond of love or trust holding her back, this might be an easy choice to take. When this situation arises, it is common for the manipulator to act out in the way of violent or abusive behavior in order to keep his target “in-line“.  

Jealousy and the need for control and dominance often accompany the desire to gather “Trophies” through superficial Manipulation, and the Prize of maintaining control over his Prey is not Grounded in a Deep, Fulfilling Relationships, But Rather the Status that comes along with “Owning” a woman.

Women are just as capable of stringing along a man, perhaps through a much more powerful persuasion tactic and desire. Those men who are obviously drawn to and dominated by the pursuit of women are easy targets for predatory women of this type.

It is easy to pick out these types of men in a crowd or to simply attract them through Flirtation. Men can be Susceptible to letting down their guards emotionally when they choose Relationship. In order to support these desires and fool themselves into thinking they are being fulfilled on a deeper level, they can buy in all sorts of Psychological Manipulation Techniques, which work to convince the target that there are Real Love and Respect within the Relationship.

Women who are skilled in this type of manipulation will be quite insidious in their mixture of Tactics, Turning the Tables and inciting guilt when they see the opportunity to make their target feel bad for something they did. They can ignite their Partner`s Sense of Protecting what`s theirs and even encourage the partner to act unethically on the Predator`s Behalf, all in the name of false Claim of Love.

So, In next Part of this chapter we will Discuss the Topic

 “Gradual Emotional Breakdown“.